How to successfully approach and get a beautiful woman's attention in only seconds!

How to successfully stop any woman dead in her tracks and get her excited
to talk to you!


Hey guys,


How many of you have had the following scenario happen to you. You're out at a club, lounge on the streets or in a mall and spot an absolutely stunning, fully dappered-up woman and don't have a clue about how to approach her:



1) To get her to stop



2) To engage her interest so that she wants to continue talking to you




Well I am going to show you how to do that-right now so that you can successfully stop any woman you want dead in her tracks and engage her interest like a deer in headlights




Let's first examine a few common mistakes most men make when attempting to initiate an interaction with a woman




1. They lean in too much and telegraph their interest way too soon. They speak with weak vocal projection, pace their words very quickly conveying angst and nervousness, they approach with an uncertain and almost scared look, etc



Are you guilty of this? Big mistake!



See a woman doesn't want a fan or groupie who shakes at the very thought of interacting with her but a man who is not intimidated by her "social face value" In other words, her looks, body, sexuality, popularity status, etc....



Remember, the only power or value a woman has is that which society gives her.




Think about it! The only reason why Jessica Alba is off limits for most men to even consider approaching and talking to is because they have been falsely conditioned by the media that she is to be revered and only attainable if they are A list celebrities. Now if you're semi-intelligent you know That's bullshit ....



Don't buy it? Well how do you explain the fact that many super hot model type women or female celebrities have boyfriends that are not celebrities or famous themselves?



It is because they don't treat them in any special manner the way most men do because they believe




1) They are cooler than them, irrespective if they are making more money than them or have more fame and material status than them.




2) They don't talk to the outside but to the inside of a woman. What I mean is that they treat them equally to everyone else because they understand that they are human and not super human or extra terrestrial Godesses and as such have imperfections and weaknesses.



What can you learn from this?



Stop giving your power away to a woman-keep it for yourself.



The first lesson then of approaching not just a woman, but anyone that you want to sell yourself to, to get them interested in you is to believe in yourself and harbor self-confidence. You should even take this one step further and believe that "You are the prize".In fact if you believe in yourself then you will convince others to believe in you or anything associated to you




Belief in yourself and self-confidence is manifested through your non-verbal communication or body language. Specifically your posture, eye movements, vocal projection, vocal tonality, facial expressions, etc.




Those who do believe in themselves and do have a high degree of self-worth and self-confidence...




Speak loud and with power
Stand up right and protrude their chests when walking and talking
Animate their facial expressions and tonality when speaking
Take up space with their arms and legs when they walk
Slow down their speech and insert deliberate, delays or pauses in it.




Just watch how Mickey Rourke speaks and you'll see what I mean by
being cool as a cucumber and what I mean by acting Alpha.




These are called "Alpha" traits because they are indicative of
confidence and leadership-two traits very conducive to survival.



On the other hand, people who don't have any self-confidence exhibit weak non-verbal traits



They speak with low and weak vocal projection
Monotonous facial expressions and vocal tonality
Keep their hands and legs close to their body when they walk
Talk fast, giving the impression of angst and nervousness.




Consequently these are "beta" traits as they are non-conducive to survival.





Important: WOMEN ARE ATTRACTED TO ALPHA TRAITS AND TURNED
OFF BY BETA TRAITS!




Notice how I am placing a huge emphasis on non-verbal traits over pick up lines or verbal tactics. This is because 95% of communication between two people consists of non-verbal communication. In other words, what each other is telegraphing non-verbally through their breathing patterns, eye movements, facial expressions, vocal phrasing speed and manner, vocal tonality, vocal projection, stance and so forth. This means that it doesn't matter what you say but how you say it.



Ever heard that before?. of course you have.



You can say the stupidest thing to a woman..like..."I love taco's baby" but while saying it ..if you exhibit a playful, flirtatious and confident attitude ...you will actually notice that most women will stop and talk to you .



Why? Because once again women don't care about what you say but rather what your body language is sub-communicating. In other words, is it telegraphing that you are alpha or beta





Therefore, the first thing you must do before even attempting to approach a beauty is to make sure you are telegraphing the right alpha non-verbal mannerisms and body language to warm her up to your approach. Otherwise you will be shot down
regardless of how "cool or catchy" your words are.




Furthermore, when you have a sense of self-confidence that underlines you you will be able to go up to anyone at anytime and talk to them-even without knowing what to say beforehand and will deliver precisely the exact words and produce the right actions to make you achieve your desired result.


In other words, you will notice that you seamlessly, carry on a very playful, flirtatious conversation with a woman without drawing a blank even for a minute.




The reason for this is because-..When you are confident..you will be presented with the competence.




The second most common mistake most men make when approaching and initiating an interaction with a woman...that you need to avoid.




They start asking rapport-building questions like "Where are you from" or "How old are you" or "Do you have a boyfriend"





Other men shower her with too much attention by telling her how beautiful she is, how gorgeous she is and how badly they want to pick her up and take her home. Big mistake!





Remember in any given interaction the one who is trying to seek rapport with the other by asking personal questions is of lower value and as we should know by now women do not respond sexually to low value behavior or beta behavior but only to alpha behavior.




Furthermore, I want you to understand the reality of an exceptionally beautiful and high status woman.




She constantly gets hit on
She's constantly told she's gorgeous
She is always used to getting her way
She is propositioned with dates all the time by men
She gets special treatment by most men
Most men that come up to her offer themselves as potential
mates or suitors





So why the hell do most men think that by going up to a woman and saying "Hi beautiful...so you have a boyfriend" or " Hey baby...you are hot....what's your name" will get a woman all hot and bothered for them?




Once again and don't you ever forget it, women are pre-conditioned to respond sexually to men that are of higher value, not lower value. Stating this in layman's terms ...a woman wants to be the one who initiates the questions to you..she wants to be the one who has to pursue you . Not the other way around. In other words, she has to be the one who seeks rapport with you in order for her attraction
circuits to be turned on.



So how do we stand out with our approach amongst the average, beta drones out there?



Exactly- be a challenge and let a woman seek rapport with you.



In terms of openers ...here are some examples you can use to telegraph to a woman that you are alpha and get her to stop everything she is doing to want to talk to you





1 "I gotta tell you..I love your shoes...you know my grandma's got a pair just like 'em". This is a powerful way to stop a woman, in particular one of exceptional beauty and quality dead in her tracks because no one playfully mocks her or teases her like this. Rather most men immediately tell her how beautiful she is, try to impress her or shower her with too much attention and always
complement her. Boring! Boring! Boring!




However when you playfully tease a woman like this in a flirtatious manner, it subtly conveys to her that you are disqualifying her as a potential mate or love interest. Consequently it will put a hole in her self-esteem and make her question her sexiness and attractiveness. As a result it will create a challenge for her to win you over. In fact she will have to, to redeem her self-esteem. Furthermore
when you set up this kind of chasing dynamic with a woman, it is incredibly powerful in pushing her attraction buttons.





2 If a woman is busy and in, what I call "chore or logic mode" particularly when shopping or running errands you can ask her, for her opinion about something. For example you can say..."Hey look I gotta go in a quick sec but I need quick female opinion from you...cool? Great! What color shirt do you think would look sexy on me, pink or blue?"





The reason why an opinion opener like the one above is incredibly powerful to stop a woman dead in her tracks, in particular when she is busy shopping for instance is because it does not convey any sort of interest to her which is important to stop her while she is in "chore" mode.



Once you've stopped her you need to attract her but that is a whole different ball game. To find out how to successfully attract a woman of exceptional beauty and quality, after you have initiated an interaction with her download our world renown Maaximum Seduction -Pick up and Seduction Mastery e-book and kick start your success with the opposite sex.




3 You can telegraph your interest to a woman but then challenge her after that. For instance.. I will many times just walk up to a woman and say "Hey...I was just going to the bank and you caught my eye, so I had to come by and see what you were like and see if you had what it took to keep my interest with your personality"




Do you understand how this is a more powerful variation of the "Hi ....you are so beautiful" and that's it type of approach?. With my version, I am subtly conveying to a woman that her looks are not enough to interest me. She will need to demonstrate her character and personality. Once again, most beautiful women
are not challenged like this and as a result love it!



-McMaax
www.maaximumseduction.com