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Monday, April 27, 2009

Our latest on air interview with TSB Magazine's own Bobby Rio








Hey guys,

Check out our latest on air interview with TSB Magazine's own Bobby Rio.In this interview I lay out our world famous 7 point model for the world.

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Sunday, December 21, 2008

How to seduce a woman into haveing sex with you all the time and every time!

How to masterfully seduce a woman into having sex with you all the time and every time By McMaax





Okay so we've now reached the final step in the seduction saga. However let me first backtrack to what we have talked about in explicit detail, in the previous broadcasts
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As you all know, the seduction process can be fragmented into 7 specific steps or phases from first entering a social venue to starting a sexual relationship with a woman.




So far I've showed you how to




1. Demonstrate Pre Opener Non Verbal value when you enter any social venue to warm up the women in the area to your approach


2. Open an interaction with a woman


3. Attract a woman


4. Hook a woman, to sexually attract her and also to subdue her ASD(Anti-Slut Defense Mechanism) so that she is open to sleeping with you


5. Qualify her


6. Build comfort with her.





Now I am going to show you how to take a woman through the last phase of the 7 point model which is the Seduction Phase. This is the phase where we finally seal the deal by penetrating her to start the sexual relationship.




This involves 2 steps





Isolating a woman to an appropriate seduction location






1) Just as we need to isolate a woman from an attraction location(a public social venue like a club, lounge, bar or mall where we Demonstrate Pre Opener value, open her, attract her and hook her) to a semi-public/private Qualify-Comfort location
(A place where we can comfortably qualify her and build comfort with her), in order to seduce a woman, we first need to isolate her to a completely private location such as a hotel or a place of personal residence





Escalating our touch with a woman from intimate to sexual, eventually penetrating her




2)The second thing we need to do is to escalate our touch with a woman, however this time from intimate to sexual finally penetrating her, to forge a sexual relationship with her.




Let me cover each of these steps in great detail.




1. The first thing we must do before we attempt to seduce a woman is to isolate her to a seduction location, in just the same way that we isolate her to a Qualify/comfort building location to qualify/build comfort with her. Once again this is due to the increasing personal/intimate nature of these two steps.





The way to do this is to sugarcoat the proposition for sex in a round about way. This way a woman will not feel slutty when accepting it. Remember, as much as a woman loves the pleasure of having sex, far greater for her is the pain of the stigma
of appearing slutty


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Let me exemplify this.




The wrong way to suggest an isolation back to your pad so you can seduce her.





1. "Do you want to go back to my place so we can get down and dirty!?" See a woman may want to have sex, but by saying yes to a direct proposition for sex, it will also make her feel slutty and consequently she will be less likely to entertain this request.





The right way





2. "Hey let's' go grab a bottle of Merlot and a movie and go back to my place and hang out!" See a woman knows that there is a good possibility that you and her will sleep together if she goes back to your pad, however it is much easier for her, a way which does not activate her Anti-Slut defense mechanism to agree to sex by agreeing to participate in a non-sexual activity like going back to your place and just hanging out.





Fast forward......



So you are back at your place. What to do?




Just go for the Jugular and start groping her?




Not quite big boy!




The most important thing you must do when you bring a woman into a seduction location is to make her feel completely comfortable around you, in fact too comfortable and show her that she can trust you, when you two are alone .





Here's how to do this.

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1. As soon as you enter your place, tell her that the rules are "NO TOUCHING" (sarcastically of course!). This will subdue her concerns that you will take advantage of the situation like all the other men have that she's met but will also indirectly convey to her that women are the ones that can't take their hands off you and make the first move. Lastly, it will convey very powerfully that you can control your sexual desires. This will make her hot for you all over again because you will be a challenge to her .





2. Then make sure you poor her a glass of wine/drink. Make sure she is comfortably seated somewhere and relaxed. Now unlike most men that would instantly attack upon arrival, you are not going to do that. You will tell her that you will be back and then just go to your room, or go wash up and come back. When you return poor yourself a drink and sit next to her but not too close.





At this time....You can throw on your movie, or just drink your wine and fluff talk with her, meaning vibe with her, talk about stuff in both your lives, interesting experiences, your goals. See at this point you need to re-initiate what?





Exactly comfort building. Once you have done that, then you need to do the second thing which is to escalate your touch with her.

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So put your arms around her
Play with her hair
Smell her neck
And of course start making out with her


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Now after you have re-initiated your touch with her then you want to take her into the bedroom. Once again, remember we need to suggest the isolation to the bedroom in a very asexual manner. So you can say something like:





"I am going to go lie down. You can stay out here if you want ...or you can join me.but once again you must behave okay(wink!) "




This will offset any concerns from her that you will take advantage of her. It will also create a challenge for her because most men always insist that she come into the bedroom. As a result there is a greater probability that she will come into your room with you.




Now once in your room


Here is what you need to do.




1. Vibe with her, talk with her, engage in more comfort building


2. Re-introduce touch-so start smelling her neck, kiss it, gently bite it let her kiss and bite yours in return.





At this point we need to transition from mere comfort building/intimate touching to sexual touching and intercourse

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The way to do this is in a very seamless, gradual manner that does not creep her out or feel invasive.





Now, If you're not sure how to go about this, here is a step by step, seduction system on how to get sexual with a woman that is not creepy or discomforting to her, but in a way that will be warmly welcomed by her.






1. Once your making out with her, start caressing her breasts over her top


2. Gently take off her top and start to play with her nipples, suck on them, bite them



Pull back at this point and stop the touch. This will heighten her sexual experience. Why? Because when you take away a good feeling from a woman, she will want it twice as much. At this point she will want you to touch her again.



So you can go ahead and re-escalate your touch with her, but introduce it from ground zero, meaning start with the subtle touching of her face, start to kiss her, caress her nipples, instead of just dive in and start groping her. Remember gradualness is much more powerful than abruptness with a woman because it creates anticipation which will further compound her sexually excited state.



3. At this point, you can caress around pussy over her pants


4. Take off her pants and start to caress her pussy over her panties and around them..A hot spot is the junction between her pelvic area and abdomen. Women go mad when you caress them in that region as there are sexual nerve centers there

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At this point, take off her panties and start caressing her pussy, probe it, finger it.


Continue engaging in foreplay for at least 10 minutes. Women love foreplay!!! Bottom line!.



In fact most women will want you to fuck them right at that moment and will in fact verbalize it if you engage them in such a steamy session of foreplay



You won't even have to say anything.



At that point, you can put on a Jimmy, or a condom and start to penetrate her.





Now in the event that a woman has last minute resistance or LMR to you penetrating her, with no care about doing everything up to that point ,that means that you haven't built enough comfort with her. So you need to build more comfort with her, re-escalate the touch with her and then attempt to enter her again.. You can also, very nonchalantly get up, go into the next room, turn on the lights and watch TV. Don't get pissy or whiny. This will really agitate her because up to that point she was enjoying your touch and now she that taken away from her, compounded with the fact that you are so cool and chilled.You will come across as someone who is not sexually needy, and who just wants to hang out with her for her which is what she really wants to know




At that point she will want you to re-initiate the physical interaction with her and will be open to sleeping with you. So once again you can slide on a slim jim and start to penetrate her.




There you go. you are now a Maaximum Seduction Master!



End of Saga!




However more to come




We have many surprises, tips, strategies, and events for you to make you a Maaximum Seducer, coming in the next few weeks and after the new year. Look out for them in our future broadcasts

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Until next time go out there and be a man!



-McMaax
The most powerful system to attract, seduce and foster relationships with women of exceptional beauty and quality!
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Monday, November 24, 2008

How to make a woman of exceptional beauty and quality exclude all other possibilities and want to only date you!

How to make a woman of exceptional beauty and quality exclude all other partnership possibilities and only want to date you! by McMaax




In the last broadcast I showed you how to solidify a number close and date with a woman after an initial encounter with her. In case you have forgotten how to do that, very quickly you need to qualify her and then build comfort with her.


We covered the importance of the Qualification process as well as examined it, quite explicitly in the last broadcast. In this broadcast, I want to show you how to get a woman to consider you as boyfriend or even long term partner material In other words, I am going to talk about how to make a woman exclude all other partnership possibilities and see you as the "One" she should forge a long-term sexual and emotional union with







The way to do this is to build "Comfort" with her by taking her through the Comfort Building Phase, the 6th step in my world famous 7 point model of seduction, which follows the qualification phase. The Comfort Building phase is marked by three important features






1) Declare our interest to a woman
2) Build a genuine emotional connection with a woman
3) Escalate our touch with a woman from physical to intimate.







Let's address each of these critical steps in the comfort building process.





1. Declare our interest to a woman







Unlike in the beginning of the courtship process, where we challenge a woman , disqualify her as a potential love interest by teasing her, demonstrate leadership over other men, flash to her that we are pre-selected by other women, demonstrate high survival and emotional value through the art of story telling sprinkling subtle cues within our story to insinuate that we are alpha so that we can attract her, in the comfort building phase we need to drop the Superhuman act and specifically perform actions that will demonstrate a more, gentle humanistic side. A good analogy is that we need to exhibit the Superman within us to attract her but then remove the Superman outfit and just be Clark, once we have done so.The reason for this is to make her see us as someone she can bond and connect with, besides someone who she can mate and reproduce with. Now the first part of this comfort building process involves stating our interest to a woman by telling her how much we like her, how beautiful she is, how gorgeous she is, how much we are fond of her, how much we would like to get to know her and form a wonderful relationship with her.




Notice the drastic contrast to the disqualifying indifferent attitude we projected in phases 1-5.







The reason for this is because a declaration of interest at this point in the seduction process is not only acceptable because a woman now knows that an alpha male is attempting to bond and connect with her but necessary in order for her to feel a bond and connection with us.







So once you have opened-attracted-hooked to sexually attract-and qualified a woman then you need to start the comfort building process. The first part of that is


To convey your fondness and interest in a woman.


For example. you can say:


"You know I really like you"

"I am really lucky to have met someone as amazing as you"

"I would love to carry this interaction for a long period of time"







2. The second part of the comfort building process is to build a genuine emotional connection with a woman. How do we do that?






As I stated in the beginning of this broadcast, unlike in the attraction phase whereby we would perform actions to make a woman feel "attraction" for us, like tease her, demonstrate dominance and leadership over other men, demonstrate social proof from other women, disqualify her as a potential love interest to attract her, we now need to perform activities that will make a woman feel that she can connect with us on an emotional level and ultimately form a genuine emotional connection with us.








Here are 8 powerful ways to build an emotional connection with a woman







1. Establish commonalities with a woman. One of the most powerful ways to accomplish this is to share your childhood memories with her..


The reason for this is because most people have had similar experiences during their childhood. Consequently, you can talk about how you used to wait for Santa Clause to come down the chimney on Christmas Day or your first trick or treating experience, etc. When you talk about such enlightening and innocent experiences from your childhood, you can rest assure that a woman has had similar experiences when she was growing up. This will establish commonalities between the two of you on an emotional level and establish a bond between the two of you.






2. Share food- As with laughter, when you share food with someone, it naturally forges an emotional bond between you and the other person. Think about it. Go back into your past and think about what a wonderful bonding experience was created when you and your date or past partner(s) used to feed each other fruit, dessert, mussels, fed each other food from each of your plates, gave each other a sip of your cocktail

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So next time you are out with your woman --offer her to take a bite out of your plate, take a bite out of her's, offer her a sip of your Martini, feed her fruit, etc and you will notice that it will create a bond between the two of you

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3.Share laughter-Extending from my last point, when you share laughter with another human being it creates a bond between you and the other person. Think about it. Ever been to a comedy club or share a humorous moment with another human being? Didn't you notice that it bridged any differences and created a real positive energy between the two of you which made it easier for you both to get along. So go out to a comedy club or rent a Dave Chappelle or Chris Rock comedy DVD with your woman and just laugh your asses off together and witness how it generates a bond and connection
between the two of you.

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4. Building trust facilitates the bond building process between two people. For instance, next time you are out with a woman at a restaurant and you have to go to the men's room. leave your wallet out on the table or your cell phone. This will really convey to a woman that you trust her because you are leaving such a delicate, critical personal belonging in her presence without yours. This will blow her mind, because it will convey to her that you really trust her and consequently will make her feel a bond and connection with you.







5.Engage in activities that couples engage in. For instance take a woman shopping with you and ask her for her opinion on the clothes you try. The significance of this is that you want to give her opinion the same level of importance that you would from an actual girlfriend or partner. This will make her feel a bond and connection with you.






6. Be chivalrous. A bit of chivalry goes a long way. For example,, open doors for her. If it is cold outside offer her your jacket. If you are walking on the sidewalk together, make sure you walk on the side of the curb next to the road. This will convey to her that you will be a protector because if a car comes and crashes onto the sidewalk, you will be the one who will be hit and not hers. This will blow her mind way and will really position you as an honorable and protective partner which will consequently make her feel a bond and connection with you.






7. Share emotionally engaging experiences together. For instance: go out to a pond or a body of water and feed the birds. Go to the zoo and watch the animals together.Go window shopping through a boutique filled strip. Go to a passport photo booth and take pictures together making funny faces and outlandish poses.Consequently when you engage in such sentimental activities with a woman, you will notice that it will create a bond and connection between the two of you.







8.. Play fight with a woman. If you are walking together in a padded or grassy area then gently trip her and laugh at her. Pick her up and throw her over your shoulder and run around in circles This will cause her to scream in excitement. Gently wrestle her to the ground, making sure of course you are in a cushioned or grassy area and say to her "Your such a dork". See the real power of play fighting with a woman is that when you are physically playful with someone, it really creates a bond between you and that person. The second powerful feature of getting physically playful with a woman is that it allows you the ability to escalate your touch with her, which is incredibly important in the seduction process.




This leads me to talk about the third part of the comfort building process which is to escalate our touch with a woman.






3. Escalate our touch with a woman from physical to intimate






Remember that it is incredibly vital that we escalate our touch with a woman. Why ?



For two reasons.





1. In order for her to welcome and not reject our attempt to touch her intimately and sexually, she has to get used to simply our touch. Now from the first time we interact with a woman until the comfort building phase, we should be escalating our touch in a very gradual, non-invasive and playful manner.




Some ways to introduce touch when we initiate and during our interaction with a woman.



Hi five her
Shake her hand
You can go up to her and pretend to be removing something from her hair
Show her a cool handshake



2. The other reason you have to escalate your touch with a woman is to position yourself as a lover and not just as a friend. The difference between a potential lover and a friend is that a lover is not afraid to escalate his touch with a woman and a friend is.





Now in the comfort building phase we have to cross the bridge from playful physical touching to intimate touching, because in the next and final stage of seduction we need her to be comfortable enough with this level of touching so we can seamlessly transition into sexual touching.





So what are some ways we can intimately touch a woman?





1. Put your hand around her waist and draw her close to you, so that you are nose-to-nose and talk with her in a very seductive tone.
2. smell her hair and her neck and say "hmmmmmmm.....you smell good....I want to bite you"
3. Put her hand on your knee and put yours on hers
4. Ask her to give you a kiss on your neck, tell her to bite it, to bite your lip, then bite her lip
5. The grand finale- Make out with her-----You need to engage in passionate kissing at this stage of the game.



Now the common question I get asked all the time is .."How do I know whene it is time to go for the kiss?"




Great question. Here is a kiss test I use all the time to determine a woman's readiness to be kissed.



It is a simple two step process and involves first caressing and playing with a woman's hair followed by caressing her facial region, her cheeks, her chin, her lips.




This is an incredibly delicate region and part of a woman's personal space. If a woman allows you entry into this area without resistance . it is a great sign that she is open to be kissed by you.





So that at point you can go for the kiss.




Another way, somewhat more playful to establish a lip-locking session is to play truth or dare.





Remember the famous game, developed by the infamous blond with lots of ambition Madonna.





So you can say to her truth or dare. At anytime if she picks dare, then you know she is open to making herself open to kissing you because she knows that you can dare her to kiss you.




Once again at that point you can put your hand behind her head and gently move it forward to your face and go for the passionate kiss and I can guarantee that she will not resist.






Until next time go out there and be a man!



-McMaax

Monday, November 17, 2008

How to get beautiiful women to meet up with you again and again!

How to solidify number closes and meetings or dates with women of exceptional beauty and quality after an initial encounter with them. by McMaax




Have you tried to call a woman after acquiring her number prematurely subsequent to spending just a few minutes interacting with her.or even after getting physical, intimate or sexual with her thinking that the deal is done ? Of course you have..

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Well, what happens? Come on we've all been there. That's right! The number is either fake or correct however you are treated with a cold and abrasive response when you call





I am now going to tell you why this is occurring so that you can avoid these situations from ever happening to you again and solidify number closes and future meetings and dates with women of exceptional beauty and quality all the time and every time!




Think about what you convey to a woman when you prematurely grab her number after just a few minutes of interacting with her and then attempt to ring her up, to try to meet up with her again.


That's right!



You convey to her that you have no standards. You convey to her that you are in it just for a piece of tail. Looking at it in another way, you're indirectly telling her that all she has to do for you to become interested in maintaining contact with and pursuing her is to show up, look pretty show you some cleavage or get hot and heavy with you on the dance floor.




Now is this alpha behavior or beta behavior indicative of desperation, neediness and a lack of sexual control?





You got it. BIG TIME BETA!






Furthermore, remember that as much as a woman loves the pleasure of having sex, far greater for her is the pain of the stigma associated with appearing slutty. This is why when you call her the day after, to suggest a second meeting or an encounter, strictly on the basis of sexual attraction, she will logically infer that it is only because you think she is beautiful or physically attractive or because she made out with you at the club or slept with you on the first night. This is not enough of a compelling reason for her to want to see you again, contrary to what most men think.



Remember this- a woman will get physical, intimate and even sexual with a man during an initial encounter with him, if he pumps up her emotions high enough, super-charges her sexual state and puts her in "Seductive" mode. This particularly happens inside of a club due to the stimulating and state pumping lights, cameras and action there. In fact this is why most one night stands originate from a club environment and not so much from a day time one like a mall or on the streets.


However the day after when she is clean and sober and in "Logic" mode , a woman will backward rationalize her actions the day before or the night before In doing so if she discovers that all that existed between you and her was simply a swapping of saliva or an exchange of flesh, she will not want to talk to you again or see you again. So if you attempt to call her, she will know that you are calling her simply based on her looks, or physicality , which will further imply to her that your ultimate intent is to get her to meet up with you so that you can grope her again or get down her pants.



And once again, as much as women love the pleasure of having sex, far greater for them is the pain of the stigma of feeling slutty.




As a result, if a woman already hasn't given you a fake number
after uncovering your superficial intentions, you will be combated
with a very abrasive and cold tone when you call any real number
you do end up collecting on short-notice!

How to solidify number closes and dates with women
after an initial encounter with them




So how do you increase the probability of getting a legitimate number from a woman and further increase the chance of meeting up with her after an initial encounter?


You need to convey to her that your interest in her is legitimate(based on her personality and character) and not superficial (based on her looks and physicality)before attempting to acquire her number.




A) The way to do this is to Qualify/Accept her-In other words force her to demonstrate her personality to you and then reward her for it using touch.


B) Following this you need to build comfort with her.



I will talk more about the "comfort building" process in the next broadcast







An important point worth noting: The Qualification phase is very much like the Hook phase because it involves getting a woman to invest in the interaction with us however the key difference between these two phases is that we hook a woman to set up a chasing dynamic so that she will become open to sleeping with us. On the other hand, we qualify her so that she will be open to meeting up with us even after sex.






So how do we qualify a woman?


There are two ways to qualify a woman




General Qualifier




You can use a general qualifying statement like




"You know you are attractive, however so what beauty is common, wouldn't you agree? tell me what makes you special besides your pretty face?"





Specific Qualifier




A Specific qualifying question is used to allow her to exhibit specific personality traits that you actually look for in someone you would consider dating or forging a long term relationship with.





For example, one of the most important qualities that I look for is ambition




So I will ask a woman:





"So where do you see yourself in the next three years and don't say
married to some rich Tycoon ?"





Now at that point a woman will do one of two things:





A) . She will qualify herself to you and demonstrate her personality and character to you by saying something like:





"Well I am smart, intelligent, am an aspiring lawyer or I see myself owning my own Clothing business or working as an IT consultant"





This is a good sign as that means that she is firmly sexually attracted to you. Think about it why else would she feel the need to qualify herself to you in this manner if she didn't have a strong sexual-emotional feeling for you.




Or she will say





"Why should I tell you?"



Or



"Nothing..I have nothing more going on for me than looks k"






If you get this reaction then it is indicative of the fact that you haven't attracted her enough for her to want to qualify herself to you.






What does this mean ? What phase are you still in ? Exactly-the Attraction phase.






So at that point you need to continue to attract her and then throw out your qualifying hoop again to see if she jumps through it.






Now once a woman qualifies herself to you by demonstrating her personality You need to reward her for doing so. The way to do that is with touch.




For instance, when you ask a woman:







"So what do you have going on for you besides your looks"




And she says:





"Well I am an aspiring journalist"





You can then say:





"You know that is so interesting. I initially thought that you were just an air headed, frolicking club girl. I am actually beginning to become
very interested in you. Come here girl" ( open your palm for a hi five)




Or you can be more outrageous and pick her up, spin her around while hugging her and say:






"Oh my god are you kidding me...that is so cool....come here girl...you deserve a hug".






See you are implanting in a woman's mind that she didn't completely seal the deal simply with her looks or physicality but did so only after demonstrating her personality to you.





Then when you go for the number, there is a much higher probability of






1) The number being a warm lead and not fake
2) You being greeted very warmly when you call and a woman being much more excited to meet up with you again and again





Why ?





Because as we mentioned!






1. A woman will feel that you are calling her because you have legitimate interest in her. In other words, based on her personality and character.

Not simply based on her looks or physique.




2. She will now feel that you are calling her because you feel that you and her actually have commonalities and similar interests, likes, tastes etc

Remember that as much as a woman doesn't want to waste her time, she also doesn't want to waste yours.





3.A woman will want to get an output for her input. See, if a woman hasn't invested anything into the interaction with you then she will expect nothing from it.

However when you make a woman first chase you and then invest in "winning you over" by demonstrating her personality and character to you, she will want to get an output for all of that input. This means that she will want to get a date, or even a relationship out of it.






Until next time go out there and be a man!



-McMaax

Monday, October 6, 2008

The 3 most powerful strategies to attract women of exceptional beauty and quality in seconds !

The 3 most powerful strategies to attract women of exceptional beauty and quality in seconds !




So you've gathered up the courage to walk up to a beautiful woman and have successfully opened her- then what do you do ?




Well what do most men do?




Ready? They bore her. How ? They immediately start to seek rapport with her and try to force a bond and connection with her, by asking her a barrage of boring personal questions like "where are you from?" or "do you have a boyfriend?" or "What is your name?" . Other men talk about how much money they make, what kind of cars they drive or how big their mansions are, as if she actually cares especially when she has made no emotional investment into the interaction . Finally other men will continue to over-complement her and tell her how beautiful she is, how gorgeous she is and how badly they want to take her out and be with her, thinking that it will magically make her feel a bond and connection with them.




Not quite big daddy!




Remember, in any given interaction between two people:




The one who is attempting to seek rapport with the other to get the other to like them is of lower value and as we should know by now, women are not attracted to low value behavior!




Think about it! Go back to when you were in high school- Didn't the uncool kids always try to befriend and seek rapport with the cool kids with the intent of becoming a part of their social circle? Similarly, in the area of inter-sexual communication or dating, the one who is trying to seek rapport with the other to get the other to like them is an uncool kid. In other words, is someone of lower social value




Now I want to make an important point. It is okay to seek rapport with a woman by asking her personal questions, unveiling personal information about yourself and even telling her how you feel about her. In fact a woman expects this from us- however at a later stage in the seduction process but not as soon as we initiate an interaction with her.




In other words, a woman does ultimately want to feel a bond and connection with a man to form a sexual and emotional union with him but only after he first demonstrates high survival value or alpha behavior. Therefore this is what we have to do, as soon as we buy ourselves some time to talk to a woman, after successfully initiating an interaction with her.




Why we need to demonstrate that we are alpha once we enter a social venue, when opening an interaction with a woman and while interacting with her.




The real benefit for a female to mate with an alpha male is , as it has been over thousands of years that any future male offspring he produces will be alpha just like him and consequently will have a much easier time attracting the females in his generation to mate with him.Consequently this would enable him to successfully replicate which would allow her genes to be propagated over successive generations
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Bottom line-A woman's long term survival depends on mating with an Alpha Male!




Now as I have mentioned over and over again, you need to demonstrate alpha behavior, non verbally as soon as you enter a social venue as a consequence of this.




How do we do that?




1) Have great body language
2) Gather social proof from other women
3) Demonstrate leadership and dominance over other men.





However does that mean that once we have demonstrated alpha behavior upon entering a social venue and when initiating an interaction with a woman that our job of demonstrating that we are alpha is done? No! You need to continue to convey that you are alpha however now, not just through your body language and non-verbal mannerisms but through verbal communication as well . In addition to demonstrating high-survival value and alpha behavior verbally, you also need to demonstrate high emotional value.





What do I mean by that?





Just as there exists a part within a woman's sub-conscious mind that governs her instinctual mating behavior(The Reptilian Brain), specifically of seeking out and mating with Alpha males, there exists yet another part within her cranial structure that is responsible for making her feel emotion. This part is called the Limbic brain and is in fact much larger( in mass) in a woman than in a man. .What this means is that women are much more emotionally-driven than we are and so consequently, we can really hit their attraction buttons real hard by engaging their senses and emotions.





Therefore, once we open an interaction with a woman which is the 2 step in the seduction process, in alignment with our world famous 7 point model, the 3rd step is to demonstrate:






1)High survival value or Alpha characteristics both non-verbally and verbally
2) High emotional value by engaging a woman's emotions. I will show you how to do that a bit later in this article.





The process of exhibiting these dual characteristics is called "attracting" and is carried out in the Attraction phase which follows the "Opener" phase. In other words, instead of jumping ahead into the comfort building phase which is only reserved for VIP alpha males, we need to first earn our VIP Alpha male ticket. In other words, we need to attract a woman by following the 2 rules listed above so that she will be open to forming a sexual and emotional bond with us.




The next obvious question you're probably asking is how do you do that?




Here are the 3 most powerful ways to not only attract a woman by demonstrating high survival value(dominance, confidence and leadership) but high emotional value once we have opened her.




1. You can Playfully-Tease or Mock a woman!




1. As I have often stated, when you playfully mock or tease a woman, especially a woman of exceptional beauty and quality you will put a hole in her self-esteem and as such will create a challenge for her to want to win you over so that she can ultimately redeem it




Remember such women are never challenged or disqualified in such a way but constantly worshiped and adored undeservingly by loser, beta males out there..This is why challenging a woman or disqualifying her like this is a very powerful way
to attract her.





However, here is what you need to be careful of:when you use this powerful technique to attract a woman that others don't tell you!




A) When you tease a woman , you have to do it with a playful, tongue-and-cheek attitude and not in a mean manner




For instance
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Wrong way: "Hey are you dumb or something?"



Right way-"Are you sure your not a natural blonde underneath that brunette hair color: wink" essentially implying that she is ditsy and dumb.




Another example to contrast the Right and Wrong way to tease a woman




Wrong way: "You're too ugly to be my type"




Right way: "You know I gotta tell you, you are beautiful . Its just a shame that I am not into blondes...damn!"






B) You should only tease and playfully mock women that have a bitch shield





Not every woman needs to be teased. Only women that have high social value.This means women that get hit on a lot, are popular, are used to being treated specially, sport a snotty attitude and finally who are very physically attractive.



The reason I placed less importance on a woman's beauty or physicality is because beautiful women often do not have a bitch shield but are quite humble and even insecure sometimes. So don't judge a woman's social value by her "Face value" or make up and fake up, but by her self-perceived social value, society-given social value and behavior. If she is acting like "Molly Ringwald" from the Breakfast club. Tease her.




Should you tease a woman with low social value?






If you try and tease a woman who doesn't have a bitch shield and one with low social value then you are essentially shooting yourself in the foot as you will really damage her concept of self and hurt her. Rather, with these women its much better to be nice and genuinely complementary because they won't even believe that someone of higher value is even talking to them. As a result, they will feel good and will love you for making them feel important


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Now, I am not advocating or suggesting that we attempt to approach and attract low value females but in many cases we will need to, especially if we want to approach, attract and seduce their hot girlfriends when they are in a group like setting, typically in clubs and lounges





The other instance when you can use cocky-playfulness is when a woman is located within a group, as we've stated. The purpose of this is to disqualify to her peer circle that you are a potential mate or suitor for her so that they will let you enter the group and later isolate her so that you can qualify her, build comfort with her to ultimately seduce her.





C) Lastly, don't continue teasing a woman beyond a few minutes.





Most men make the mistake of delivering one mocking statement after the other which dilutes the effect of their teasing.
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Remember attraction is not an end in itself, but a means to an end. In other words, your job is not to continue teasing a woman to attract her, but to tease her, just enough to attract her so that she will be ultimately open to forming a bond and connection with you and allow you to seduce her. This doesn't take hours but only minutes!






So, STOP carpet bombing a woman with playful-mocking remarks. Just make a few of them until she starts to exhibit IOI's or indicators of interest towards you.Then you should start to qualify her and build a bond and connection with her.






2. You can DHV-Demonstrate High Value




What this means is to put your best foot forward and showcase all of your attractive traits, while simultaneously suppressing any unattractive traits.





How do we do this?





Let's break it down!





1) First demonstrate the best elements of your personality that insinuate that you are Alpha





2) Talk about things that make you emotionally significant in a woman's mind and life






A lot of men make the mistake of talking about how much money they make, what kind of cars they drive or how big their mansions are. Are you guilty of this as well? Well ask yourself, why would a woman care about these things especially when she hasn't made any sort of emotional investment into you? Secondly, you should know by now that you don't need to exhibit financial status or material status to attract a woman, but simply genetic status in the social hierarchy. In other words Alpha non-verbal mannerisms and behaviors.





Furthermore, a woman's mind is divided into three parts as is ours, as I have mentioned earlier. One of the sub-sections of her brain(The Repilian Brain) is concerned with fundamental needs such as survival, physical maintenance, hoarding, dominance, preening and mating. This is the sub-section of her three part brain that has been conditioned to be sexually responsive to alpha behavior. The 2nd of the 3 parts is called (The Limbic Brain) and it is this part that is responsible for generating emotions. Interesting enough the Limbic brain of a woman is larger than a man's so we can therefore scientifically deduce that women are more emotionally-driven than men.

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Why do you think they are into drama, soap operas, scents, massage, etc. ?





It also explains why they do not process and consequently respond to factual and logical data





What this means for us is that when we are engaged in conversation with a woman, we should avoid talking about boring, logical and factual things, but should instead talk about things that will engage her senses and emotions.. For instance, talk about your knowledge of wine, massage, show her a cool hand massage technique, demonstrate your knowledge of ESP, of exotic traveling destinations
Tantric massage, palm reading, etc





This will give you emotional value in her eyes






Now one of the most powerful ways to engage a woman's emotions and get her all hot for you is through the art of storytelling. In fact it is one of the most powerful ways to brag about yourself without actually bragging. For instance, instead of directly elucidating that you are alpha, the leader of men, sexually experienced and good with women, you can interweave these facts into an emotionally engaging storyline.





For instance...here is a story I tell a woman in set that conveys a lot
of attractive qualities about me. See if you can determine what these are.





Anyways here is my story





Start of story....





"So I am waiting for my friend at the train station and after only a few minutes of me getting there, a large group of passengers exit the train terminal


Amongst this group is a very attractive brunette who looks Latin American. Simultaneously I notice a group of 3 guys, very tall and muscular get off with her..





Not too long after, I noticed that these three guys were hovering around the brunette, looking like they were trying to conjure up some sort of master plan to go up to her, talk to her and try to pick her up.





They must have been there for at least 10 minutes and didn't make a move.





Now the brunette noticed this and started to get really creeped out.





Well, being a dating consultant, I understood why. I guess these guys weren't taught that the more you stand there and check out a woman, especially for such a long period of time without making a move, its going to telegraph insecurity and a lack of self-confidence


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And we both know that woman are not attracted to men with no confidence right?





Anyways I let this escapade continue for sometime because I thought it was entertaining, however after a few minutes I started to get angry at these guys for starting to make the cute brunette feel uncomfortable. I mean, I am sure their intention was good but their delivery was obviously beginning to instill fear in this poor woman who appeared very uncomfortable in this situation

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Well because I have this need to protect women, I walked up to where the brunette was, turned to face the guys and said:




"Hey guys. thanks for entertaining my girl while I was busy..however you can go now...k..you're dismissed"




Then I turned to the woman and said





"Hey baby...did you miss me....sorry I took a bit longer than I said I would. Come let's go grab a bite" wink)))




The brunette looked at me, understood what I had done and smiled back


.Anyways 10 minutes later we're having dinner together.




Ain't life a bitch for some and marvelous for others."




End of story....




There's my story. From this story then, can you determine all of the
factual information that points to me as being an attractive, self-confident, alpha male?





If you don't know by now let me tell you.





1 I am a dating consultant
2. I get attraction
3. I am not threatened or intimidated by other men. In other words, I am the leader of men which is a crucial trait of an alpha male
4. I am confident





So remember next time you feel the need to brag about yourself by elucidating boring facts-STOP YOURSELF! Instead insinuate it , subtly within the context of an emotionally engaging story. Furthermore, if you tell a story that has, embedded in it tidbits of information that convey that you are alpha as my story did, you will not only trigger her alpha male seeking circuitry but also her emotional value seeking circuit. In other words, you will attract her like no other man out there-hands down!






Once again, don't continue to DHV to a woman once you have started to see IOI's or indicators of interest from her. You simply need to convey your personality for a few minutes which should be enough to attract her. As soon as you start noticing a woman giving you IOI's or indicators of interest, then immediately escalate the interaction with her and start to qualify her and build a bond and connection with her.





3. Roleplaying





I would reserve this last attraction-sparking strategy for a night time environment like a club or lounge because it will require you to escalate your touch with a woman and get close to her or invade her personal space which is more acceptable in an environment like a club or lounge than in a day time environment like on the streets or in the malls. The power of role playing is based on the fact that women love to have their senses and emotions engaged as we have already stated. Now what better activity to engage a woman's imagination and thus her emotions than role playing. In fact ever since a woman was little she quickly developed an interest in fantasizing and mental role playing that she was Cinderella, Snow white, Wonder Woman or the female object of desire in a romance novel





Well guess what? We can take advantage of this fact and use it to attract a woman.





For instance....if you are talking to a woman inside of a club or lounge you can french lock your arm with hers and say..to her.





"K babe..Wanna try something fun and exciting? Okay great! .Let's walk through the Crowd and role play that we are a celebrity couple. I'll be Brad and you'll be Angelina" (Most women fantasize about being part of a celebrity couple) like Brangelina






At that point you can lock your arm with your girl's arm, walk through the crowd, address people with your eyes and say "What's up". "How ya doin".... Start waving at imaginary fans waiting to get a glimpse of you both or you can pose together with your girl, imagining that you are in front of Paparazzi dying to take snapshots of you both.


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At that point, you can put your arm around her and say "Baby...ain't life with me exciting"





Now in case you haven't noticed yet, the real power of role playing is that it gives you an opportunity to escalate your touch with a woman which is incredibly important to get her used to your touch, so that later on when it comes time to getting intimate with her and even sexual with her it will seem natural and congruent. In other words, she will be used to it and will not get creeped out by it.




So there are the three deadliest ways to attract a woman of exceptional beauty and quality-All the time and everytime!
100% Field tested and fail proof!




Until next time.....Go out there and be a man.!


-McMaax
www.maaximumseduction.com

Thursday, September 25, 2008

How to successfully approach and get a beautiful woman's attention in only seconds!

How to successfully stop any woman dead in her tracks and get her excited
to talk to you
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Hey guys,


How many of you have had the following scenario happen to you. You're out at a club, lounge on the streets or in a mall and spot an absolutely stunning, fully dappered-up woman and don't have a clue about how to approach her:



1) To get her to stop



2) To engage her interest so that she wants to continue talking to you




Well I am going to show you how to do that-right now so that you can successfully stop any woman you want dead in her tracks and engage her interest like a deer in headlights




Let's first examine a few common mistakes most men make when attempting to initiate an interaction with a woman




1. They lean in too much and telegraph their interest way too soon. They speak with weak vocal projection, pace their words very quickly conveying angst and nervousness, they approach with an uncertain and almost scared look, etc



Are you guilty of this? Big mistake!



See a woman doesn't want a fan or groupie who shakes at the very thought of interacting with her but a man who is not intimidated by her "social face value" In other words, her looks, body, sexuality, popularity status, etc....



Remember, the only power or value a woman has is that which society gives her.




Think about it! The only reason why Jessica Alba is off limits for most men to even consider approaching and talking to is because they have been falsely conditioned by the media that she is to be revered and only attainable if they are A list celebrities. Now if you're semi-intelligent you know That's bullshit ....



Don't buy it? Well how do you explain the fact that many super hot model type women or female celebrities have boyfriends that are not celebrities or famous themselves?



It is because they don't treat them in any special manner the way most men do because they believe




1) They are cooler than them, irrespective if they are making more money than them or have more fame and material status than them.




2) They don't talk to the outside but to the inside of a woman. What I mean is that they treat them equally to everyone else because they understand that they are human and not super human or extra terrestrial Godesses and as such have imperfections and weaknesses.



What can you learn from this?



Stop giving your power away to a woman-keep it for yourself.



The first lesson then of approaching not just a woman, but anyone that you want to sell yourself to, to get them interested in you is to believe in yourself and harbor self-confidence. You should even take this one step further and believe that "You are the prize".In fact if you believe in yourself then you will convince others to believe in you or anything associated to you




Belief in yourself and self-confidence is manifested through your non-verbal communication or body language. Specifically your posture, eye movements, vocal projection, vocal tonality, facial expressions, etc.




Those who do believe in themselves and do have a high degree of self-worth and self-confidence...




Speak loud and with power
Stand up right and protrude their chests when walking and talking
Animate their facial expressions and tonality when speaking
Take up space with their arms and legs when they walk
Slow down their speech and insert deliberate, delays or pauses in it.




Just watch how Mickey Rourke speaks and you'll see what I mean by
being cool as a cucumber and what I mean by acting Alpha.




These are called "Alpha" traits because they are indicative of
confidence and leadership-two traits very conducive to survival.



On the other hand, people who don't have any self-confidence exhibit weak non-verbal traits



They speak with low and weak vocal projection
Monotonous facial expressions and vocal tonality
Keep their hands and legs close to their body when they walk
Talk fast, giving the impression of angst and nervousness.




Consequently these are "beta" traits as they are non-conducive to survival.





Important: WOMEN ARE ATTRACTED TO ALPHA TRAITS AND TURNED
OFF BY BETA TRAITS!




Notice how I am placing a huge emphasis on non-verbal traits over pick up lines or verbal tactics. This is because 95% of communication between two people consists of non-verbal communication. In other words, what each other is telegraphing non-verbally through their breathing patterns, eye movements, facial expressions, vocal phrasing speed and manner, vocal tonality, vocal projection, stance and so forth. This means that it doesn't matter what you say but how you say it.



Ever heard that before?. of course you have.



You can say the stupidest thing to a woman..like..."I love taco's baby" but while saying it ..if you exhibit a playful, flirtatious and confident attitude ...you will actually notice that most women will stop and talk to you .



Why? Because once again women don't care about what you say but rather what your body language is sub-communicating. In other words, is it telegraphing that you are alpha or beta





Therefore, the first thing you must do before even attempting to approach a beauty is to make sure you are telegraphing the right alpha non-verbal mannerisms and body language to warm her up to your approach. Otherwise you will be shot down
regardless of how "cool or catchy" your words are.




Furthermore, when you have a sense of self-confidence that underlines you you will be able to go up to anyone at anytime and talk to them-even without knowing what to say beforehand and will deliver precisely the exact words and produce the right actions to make you achieve your desired result.


In other words, you will notice that you seamlessly, carry on a very playful, flirtatious conversation with a woman without drawing a blank even for a minute.




The reason for this is because-..When you are confident..you will be presented with the competence.




The second most common mistake most men make when approaching and initiating an interaction with a woman...that you need to avoid.




They start asking rapport-building questions like "Where are you from" or "How old are you" or "Do you have a boyfriend"





Other men shower her with too much attention by telling her how beautiful she is, how gorgeous she is and how badly they want to pick her up and take her home. Big mistake!





Remember in any given interaction the one who is trying to seek rapport with the other by asking personal questions is of lower value and as we should know by now women do not respond sexually to low value behavior or beta behavior but only to alpha behavior.




Furthermore, I want you to understand the reality of an exceptionally beautiful and high status woman.




She constantly gets hit on
She's constantly told she's gorgeous
She is always used to getting her way
She is propositioned with dates all the time by men
She gets special treatment by most men
Most men that come up to her offer themselves as potential
mates or suitors





So why the hell do most men think that by going up to a woman and saying "Hi beautiful...so you have a boyfriend" or " Hey baby...you are hot....what's your name" will get a woman all hot and bothered for them?




Once again and don't you ever forget it, women are pre-conditioned to respond sexually to men that are of higher value, not lower value. Stating this in layman's terms ...a woman wants to be the one who initiates the questions to you..she wants to be the one who has to pursue you . Not the other way around. In other words, she has to be the one who seeks rapport with you in order for her attraction
circuits to be turned on.



So how do we stand out with our approach amongst the average, beta drones out there?



Exactly- be a challenge and let a woman seek rapport with you.



In terms of openers ...here are some examples you can use to telegraph to a woman that you are alpha and get her to stop everything she is doing to want to talk to you





1 "I gotta tell you..I love your shoes...you know my grandma's got a pair just like 'em". This is a powerful way to stop a woman, in particular one of exceptional beauty and quality dead in her tracks because no one playfully mocks her or teases her like this. Rather most men immediately tell her how beautiful she is, try to impress her or shower her with too much attention and always
complement her. Boring! Boring! Boring!




However when you playfully tease a woman like this in a flirtatious manner, it subtly conveys to her that you are disqualifying her as a potential mate or love interest. Consequently it will put a hole in her self-esteem and make her question her sexiness and attractiveness. As a result it will create a challenge for her to win you over. In fact she will have to, to redeem her self-esteem. Furthermore
when you set up this kind of chasing dynamic with a woman, it is incredibly powerful in pushing her attraction buttons.





2 If a woman is busy and in, what I call "chore or logic mode" particularly when shopping or running errands you can ask her, for her opinion about something. For example you can say..."Hey look I gotta go in a quick sec but I need quick female opinion from you...cool? Great! What color shirt do you think would look sexy on me, pink or blue?"





The reason why an opinion opener like the one above is incredibly powerful to stop a woman dead in her tracks, in particular when she is busy shopping for instance is because it does not convey any sort of interest to her which is important to stop her while she is in "chore" mode.



Once you've stopped her you need to attract her but that is a whole different ball game. To find out how to successfully attract a woman of exceptional beauty and quality, after you have initiated an interaction with her download our world renown Maaximum Seduction -Pick up and Seduction Mastery e-book and kick start your success with the opposite sex.




3 You can telegraph your interest to a woman but then challenge her after that. For instance.. I will many times just walk up to a woman and say "Hey...I was just going to the bank and you caught my eye, so I had to come by and see what you were like and see if you had what it took to keep my interest with your personality"




Do you understand how this is a more powerful variation of the "Hi ....you are so beautiful" and that's it type of approach?. With my version, I am subtly conveying to a woman that her looks are not enough to interest me. She will need to demonstrate her character and personality. Once again, most beautiful women
are not challenged like this and as a result love it!



-McMaax
www.maaximumseduction.com

Sunday, September 21, 2008

The importance of social logistics for pick up and seduction mastery!

How to play the game like a logistical pro!



Guys,

Do you ever get stuck in the trap of eliciting superficial interest or attraction from a woman but then stumble and fall when trying to escalate things beyond that point?


If the answer is "yes" then let me tell why that is happening and show you what you need to do to avoid being caught in this hole again, so you can have a fruitful interaction with a woman that actually goes somewhere, each time and every time


Two important pieces of the seduction game you need to fill in.


You need to amplify a woman's attraction for you into "sexual attraction" in order to get her to become open to sleeping with you.


Remember just because a woman is exhibiting indicators of interest or IOIs towards you, it doesn't mean that she is open to the idea of having sex with you. You need to get a woman to invest in the interaction with you or pursue you, for that to occur. Only when a woman feels that she has made an emotional investment into the interaction as much as you have then she will feel "gut level sexual attraction" towards you.


The way to get her to invest in the interaction is to "hook" her to chase you. Recall that the hook phase is the 4th phase of the seduction process that you need to take a woman through, once you have taken her through the 3rd phase of "generating attraction"




One of the ways you can get a woman to chase you is to "falsely disqualify" her. This means to convey to her, through actions or with words that you are not considering her as a potential mate or love interest. In other words, that you are not interested in her.


For instance, when I am talking to a woman and I know that she is becoming attracted to me, I will want to solidify that into "raw, sexual attraction"



So I will falsely disqualify her by saying something like...:


"Don't you have to go back to your friends...they must be worried about you"- This will cause her to think that I am pushing her away because I am getting bored or losing interest in her.


Think about it!




She never has a man push her away or disqualify her like this...but is used to dealing with men who never want to let her go.


Consequently, this will put a damper or hole in her self-esteem which is central to her "Queeny Status". As a result this will cause her to chase me, to win me over so she can turn me into another fan or worshiper, to redeem her self-worth and status as God's gift of heavenly perfection



In other words...it will get her to invest in the interaction with me. As a result, this will amplify her attraction for me into sexual attraction.



Another thing I will say is ---"Oh my God...you have a water hand...honey! shit.......I can't even talk to you".This will generate a similar "elastic band effect" of getting a woman to chase me for conversation so I can tell her what that means. This is because women are genuinely fascinated when you describe them by looking at their hands.or facial structure or lines on their palms.



I will then respond, in a very tongue-n-cheek manner with "I don't know if I should tell you....it may piss you off". She will then usually respond with.."No...tell me please"



Once again do you see how I hooked her into chasing me or investing in the interaction.


You need to set up this "chasing dynamic" in order for a woman to feel sexual attraction for you.




The other reason that your attempts at getting intimate or sexual with a woman lead to nothingness is because you didn't gather information from her as to whether she is sexually open or not.




See exhibiting interest in you, displaying signs of attraction towards you through flirtatious gestures and even kissing you is one thing, but jumping the line to having sex with you is completely off limits for many women. Consequently, to save yourself time from pursuing women that are sexually cold, you need find out early on if a woman is hot or cold sexually. The way to do that is by playing a fun little game, that a famous Blonde with big ambition introduced to the world in the early 90's. You got it----Truth or Dare.

So before you kiss a woman , just like that , without any knowledge of her sexual tendencies or openness- Say to her...."K truth or dare."




If she picks truth...then you can ask....


"security or adventure"
"Going to the movies or enjoying a nice massage"
"erotica or hardcore"


From her answer you can assess if she is somewhat sexual or not...



If she picks dare you can say.


"I dare you to lick your lips in an erotic way"
"I dare you to turn me on by massaging my hand "
"I dare you to eat that orange in an erotic way"




If she complies to these requests with little or no hesitation, then you have yourself a winner baby!. In other words a woman who is open to taking things to the next level if the appropriate conditions are met. At this point, you can go for the kiss with an assurance that she is open to taking things beyond that point when the time is right.




Another logistical purpose for kissing a woman only after she complies with your requests or standards is to convey to her that she is being rewarded for doing so and not undeservingly.



So remember don't just give away a kiss for free- let a woman earn it and you will go a lot further with her.



Until next time...go out there and be a man!

McMaax