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Monday, November 24, 2008

How to make a woman of exceptional beauty and quality exclude all other possibilities and want to only date you!

How to make a woman of exceptional beauty and quality exclude all other partnership possibilities and only want to date you! by McMaax




In the last broadcast I showed you how to solidify a number close and date with a woman after an initial encounter with her. In case you have forgotten how to do that, very quickly you need to qualify her and then build comfort with her.


We covered the importance of the Qualification process as well as examined it, quite explicitly in the last broadcast. In this broadcast, I want to show you how to get a woman to consider you as boyfriend or even long term partner material In other words, I am going to talk about how to make a woman exclude all other partnership possibilities and see you as the "One" she should forge a long-term sexual and emotional union with







The way to do this is to build "Comfort" with her by taking her through the Comfort Building Phase, the 6th step in my world famous 7 point model of seduction, which follows the qualification phase. The Comfort Building phase is marked by three important features






1) Declare our interest to a woman
2) Build a genuine emotional connection with a woman
3) Escalate our touch with a woman from physical to intimate.







Let's address each of these critical steps in the comfort building process.





1. Declare our interest to a woman







Unlike in the beginning of the courtship process, where we challenge a woman , disqualify her as a potential love interest by teasing her, demonstrate leadership over other men, flash to her that we are pre-selected by other women, demonstrate high survival and emotional value through the art of story telling sprinkling subtle cues within our story to insinuate that we are alpha so that we can attract her, in the comfort building phase we need to drop the Superhuman act and specifically perform actions that will demonstrate a more, gentle humanistic side. A good analogy is that we need to exhibit the Superman within us to attract her but then remove the Superman outfit and just be Clark, once we have done so.The reason for this is to make her see us as someone she can bond and connect with, besides someone who she can mate and reproduce with. Now the first part of this comfort building process involves stating our interest to a woman by telling her how much we like her, how beautiful she is, how gorgeous she is, how much we are fond of her, how much we would like to get to know her and form a wonderful relationship with her.




Notice the drastic contrast to the disqualifying indifferent attitude we projected in phases 1-5.







The reason for this is because a declaration of interest at this point in the seduction process is not only acceptable because a woman now knows that an alpha male is attempting to bond and connect with her but necessary in order for her to feel a bond and connection with us.







So once you have opened-attracted-hooked to sexually attract-and qualified a woman then you need to start the comfort building process. The first part of that is


To convey your fondness and interest in a woman.


For example. you can say:


"You know I really like you"

"I am really lucky to have met someone as amazing as you"

"I would love to carry this interaction for a long period of time"







2. The second part of the comfort building process is to build a genuine emotional connection with a woman. How do we do that?






As I stated in the beginning of this broadcast, unlike in the attraction phase whereby we would perform actions to make a woman feel "attraction" for us, like tease her, demonstrate dominance and leadership over other men, demonstrate social proof from other women, disqualify her as a potential love interest to attract her, we now need to perform activities that will make a woman feel that she can connect with us on an emotional level and ultimately form a genuine emotional connection with us.








Here are 8 powerful ways to build an emotional connection with a woman







1. Establish commonalities with a woman. One of the most powerful ways to accomplish this is to share your childhood memories with her..


The reason for this is because most people have had similar experiences during their childhood. Consequently, you can talk about how you used to wait for Santa Clause to come down the chimney on Christmas Day or your first trick or treating experience, etc. When you talk about such enlightening and innocent experiences from your childhood, you can rest assure that a woman has had similar experiences when she was growing up. This will establish commonalities between the two of you on an emotional level and establish a bond between the two of you.






2. Share food- As with laughter, when you share food with someone, it naturally forges an emotional bond between you and the other person. Think about it. Go back into your past and think about what a wonderful bonding experience was created when you and your date or past partner(s) used to feed each other fruit, dessert, mussels, fed each other food from each of your plates, gave each other a sip of your cocktail

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So next time you are out with your woman --offer her to take a bite out of your plate, take a bite out of her's, offer her a sip of your Martini, feed her fruit, etc and you will notice that it will create a bond between the two of you

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3.Share laughter-Extending from my last point, when you share laughter with another human being it creates a bond between you and the other person. Think about it. Ever been to a comedy club or share a humorous moment with another human being? Didn't you notice that it bridged any differences and created a real positive energy between the two of you which made it easier for you both to get along. So go out to a comedy club or rent a Dave Chappelle or Chris Rock comedy DVD with your woman and just laugh your asses off together and witness how it generates a bond and connection
between the two of you.

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4. Building trust facilitates the bond building process between two people. For instance, next time you are out with a woman at a restaurant and you have to go to the men's room. leave your wallet out on the table or your cell phone. This will really convey to a woman that you trust her because you are leaving such a delicate, critical personal belonging in her presence without yours. This will blow her mind, because it will convey to her that you really trust her and consequently will make her feel a bond and connection with you.







5.Engage in activities that couples engage in. For instance take a woman shopping with you and ask her for her opinion on the clothes you try. The significance of this is that you want to give her opinion the same level of importance that you would from an actual girlfriend or partner. This will make her feel a bond and connection with you.






6. Be chivalrous. A bit of chivalry goes a long way. For example,, open doors for her. If it is cold outside offer her your jacket. If you are walking on the sidewalk together, make sure you walk on the side of the curb next to the road. This will convey to her that you will be a protector because if a car comes and crashes onto the sidewalk, you will be the one who will be hit and not hers. This will blow her mind way and will really position you as an honorable and protective partner which will consequently make her feel a bond and connection with you.






7. Share emotionally engaging experiences together. For instance: go out to a pond or a body of water and feed the birds. Go to the zoo and watch the animals together.Go window shopping through a boutique filled strip. Go to a passport photo booth and take pictures together making funny faces and outlandish poses.Consequently when you engage in such sentimental activities with a woman, you will notice that it will create a bond and connection between the two of you.







8.. Play fight with a woman. If you are walking together in a padded or grassy area then gently trip her and laugh at her. Pick her up and throw her over your shoulder and run around in circles This will cause her to scream in excitement. Gently wrestle her to the ground, making sure of course you are in a cushioned or grassy area and say to her "Your such a dork". See the real power of play fighting with a woman is that when you are physically playful with someone, it really creates a bond between you and that person. The second powerful feature of getting physically playful with a woman is that it allows you the ability to escalate your touch with her, which is incredibly important in the seduction process.




This leads me to talk about the third part of the comfort building process which is to escalate our touch with a woman.






3. Escalate our touch with a woman from physical to intimate






Remember that it is incredibly vital that we escalate our touch with a woman. Why ?



For two reasons.





1. In order for her to welcome and not reject our attempt to touch her intimately and sexually, she has to get used to simply our touch. Now from the first time we interact with a woman until the comfort building phase, we should be escalating our touch in a very gradual, non-invasive and playful manner.




Some ways to introduce touch when we initiate and during our interaction with a woman.



Hi five her
Shake her hand
You can go up to her and pretend to be removing something from her hair
Show her a cool handshake



2. The other reason you have to escalate your touch with a woman is to position yourself as a lover and not just as a friend. The difference between a potential lover and a friend is that a lover is not afraid to escalate his touch with a woman and a friend is.





Now in the comfort building phase we have to cross the bridge from playful physical touching to intimate touching, because in the next and final stage of seduction we need her to be comfortable enough with this level of touching so we can seamlessly transition into sexual touching.





So what are some ways we can intimately touch a woman?





1. Put your hand around her waist and draw her close to you, so that you are nose-to-nose and talk with her in a very seductive tone.
2. smell her hair and her neck and say "hmmmmmmm.....you smell good....I want to bite you"
3. Put her hand on your knee and put yours on hers
4. Ask her to give you a kiss on your neck, tell her to bite it, to bite your lip, then bite her lip
5. The grand finale- Make out with her-----You need to engage in passionate kissing at this stage of the game.



Now the common question I get asked all the time is .."How do I know whene it is time to go for the kiss?"




Great question. Here is a kiss test I use all the time to determine a woman's readiness to be kissed.



It is a simple two step process and involves first caressing and playing with a woman's hair followed by caressing her facial region, her cheeks, her chin, her lips.




This is an incredibly delicate region and part of a woman's personal space. If a woman allows you entry into this area without resistance . it is a great sign that she is open to be kissed by you.





So that at point you can go for the kiss.




Another way, somewhat more playful to establish a lip-locking session is to play truth or dare.





Remember the famous game, developed by the infamous blond with lots of ambition Madonna.





So you can say to her truth or dare. At anytime if she picks dare, then you know she is open to making herself open to kissing you because she knows that you can dare her to kiss you.




Once again at that point you can put your hand behind her head and gently move it forward to your face and go for the passionate kiss and I can guarantee that she will not resist.






Until next time go out there and be a man!



-McMaax

Monday, November 17, 2008

How to get beautiiful women to meet up with you again and again!

How to solidify number closes and meetings or dates with women of exceptional beauty and quality after an initial encounter with them. by McMaax




Have you tried to call a woman after acquiring her number prematurely subsequent to spending just a few minutes interacting with her.or even after getting physical, intimate or sexual with her thinking that the deal is done ? Of course you have..

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Well, what happens? Come on we've all been there. That's right! The number is either fake or correct however you are treated with a cold and abrasive response when you call





I am now going to tell you why this is occurring so that you can avoid these situations from ever happening to you again and solidify number closes and future meetings and dates with women of exceptional beauty and quality all the time and every time!




Think about what you convey to a woman when you prematurely grab her number after just a few minutes of interacting with her and then attempt to ring her up, to try to meet up with her again.


That's right!



You convey to her that you have no standards. You convey to her that you are in it just for a piece of tail. Looking at it in another way, you're indirectly telling her that all she has to do for you to become interested in maintaining contact with and pursuing her is to show up, look pretty show you some cleavage or get hot and heavy with you on the dance floor.




Now is this alpha behavior or beta behavior indicative of desperation, neediness and a lack of sexual control?





You got it. BIG TIME BETA!






Furthermore, remember that as much as a woman loves the pleasure of having sex, far greater for her is the pain of the stigma associated with appearing slutty. This is why when you call her the day after, to suggest a second meeting or an encounter, strictly on the basis of sexual attraction, she will logically infer that it is only because you think she is beautiful or physically attractive or because she made out with you at the club or slept with you on the first night. This is not enough of a compelling reason for her to want to see you again, contrary to what most men think.



Remember this- a woman will get physical, intimate and even sexual with a man during an initial encounter with him, if he pumps up her emotions high enough, super-charges her sexual state and puts her in "Seductive" mode. This particularly happens inside of a club due to the stimulating and state pumping lights, cameras and action there. In fact this is why most one night stands originate from a club environment and not so much from a day time one like a mall or on the streets.


However the day after when she is clean and sober and in "Logic" mode , a woman will backward rationalize her actions the day before or the night before In doing so if she discovers that all that existed between you and her was simply a swapping of saliva or an exchange of flesh, she will not want to talk to you again or see you again. So if you attempt to call her, she will know that you are calling her simply based on her looks, or physicality , which will further imply to her that your ultimate intent is to get her to meet up with you so that you can grope her again or get down her pants.



And once again, as much as women love the pleasure of having sex, far greater for them is the pain of the stigma of feeling slutty.




As a result, if a woman already hasn't given you a fake number
after uncovering your superficial intentions, you will be combated
with a very abrasive and cold tone when you call any real number
you do end up collecting on short-notice!

How to solidify number closes and dates with women
after an initial encounter with them




So how do you increase the probability of getting a legitimate number from a woman and further increase the chance of meeting up with her after an initial encounter?


You need to convey to her that your interest in her is legitimate(based on her personality and character) and not superficial (based on her looks and physicality)before attempting to acquire her number.




A) The way to do this is to Qualify/Accept her-In other words force her to demonstrate her personality to you and then reward her for it using touch.


B) Following this you need to build comfort with her.



I will talk more about the "comfort building" process in the next broadcast







An important point worth noting: The Qualification phase is very much like the Hook phase because it involves getting a woman to invest in the interaction with us however the key difference between these two phases is that we hook a woman to set up a chasing dynamic so that she will become open to sleeping with us. On the other hand, we qualify her so that she will be open to meeting up with us even after sex.






So how do we qualify a woman?


There are two ways to qualify a woman




General Qualifier




You can use a general qualifying statement like




"You know you are attractive, however so what beauty is common, wouldn't you agree? tell me what makes you special besides your pretty face?"





Specific Qualifier




A Specific qualifying question is used to allow her to exhibit specific personality traits that you actually look for in someone you would consider dating or forging a long term relationship with.





For example, one of the most important qualities that I look for is ambition




So I will ask a woman:





"So where do you see yourself in the next three years and don't say
married to some rich Tycoon ?"





Now at that point a woman will do one of two things:





A) . She will qualify herself to you and demonstrate her personality and character to you by saying something like:





"Well I am smart, intelligent, am an aspiring lawyer or I see myself owning my own Clothing business or working as an IT consultant"





This is a good sign as that means that she is firmly sexually attracted to you. Think about it why else would she feel the need to qualify herself to you in this manner if she didn't have a strong sexual-emotional feeling for you.




Or she will say





"Why should I tell you?"



Or



"Nothing..I have nothing more going on for me than looks k"






If you get this reaction then it is indicative of the fact that you haven't attracted her enough for her to want to qualify herself to you.






What does this mean ? What phase are you still in ? Exactly-the Attraction phase.






So at that point you need to continue to attract her and then throw out your qualifying hoop again to see if she jumps through it.






Now once a woman qualifies herself to you by demonstrating her personality You need to reward her for doing so. The way to do that is with touch.




For instance, when you ask a woman:







"So what do you have going on for you besides your looks"




And she says:





"Well I am an aspiring journalist"





You can then say:





"You know that is so interesting. I initially thought that you were just an air headed, frolicking club girl. I am actually beginning to become
very interested in you. Come here girl" ( open your palm for a hi five)




Or you can be more outrageous and pick her up, spin her around while hugging her and say:






"Oh my god are you kidding me...that is so cool....come here girl...you deserve a hug".






See you are implanting in a woman's mind that she didn't completely seal the deal simply with her looks or physicality but did so only after demonstrating her personality to you.





Then when you go for the number, there is a much higher probability of






1) The number being a warm lead and not fake
2) You being greeted very warmly when you call and a woman being much more excited to meet up with you again and again





Why ?





Because as we mentioned!






1. A woman will feel that you are calling her because you have legitimate interest in her. In other words, based on her personality and character.

Not simply based on her looks or physique.




2. She will now feel that you are calling her because you feel that you and her actually have commonalities and similar interests, likes, tastes etc

Remember that as much as a woman doesn't want to waste her time, she also doesn't want to waste yours.





3.A woman will want to get an output for her input. See, if a woman hasn't invested anything into the interaction with you then she will expect nothing from it.

However when you make a woman first chase you and then invest in "winning you over" by demonstrating her personality and character to you, she will want to get an output for all of that input. This means that she will want to get a date, or even a relationship out of it.






Until next time go out there and be a man!



-McMaax