How to successfully approach and get a beautiful woman's attention in only seconds!

How to successfully stop any woman dead in her tracks and get her excited
to talk to you!


Hey guys,


How many of you have had the following scenario happen to you. You're out at a club, lounge on the streets or in a mall and spot an absolutely stunning, fully dappered-up woman and don't have a clue about how to approach her:



1) To get her to stop



2) To engage her interest so that she wants to continue talking to you




Well I am going to show you how to do that-right now so that you can successfully stop any woman you want dead in her tracks and engage her interest like a deer in headlights




Let's first examine a few common mistakes most men make when attempting to initiate an interaction with a woman




1. They lean in too much and telegraph their interest way too soon. They speak with weak vocal projection, pace their words very quickly conveying angst and nervousness, they approach with an uncertain and almost scared look, etc



Are you guilty of this? Big mistake!



See a woman doesn't want a fan or groupie who shakes at the very thought of interacting with her but a man who is not intimidated by her "social face value" In other words, her looks, body, sexuality, popularity status, etc....



Remember, the only power or value a woman has is that which society gives her.




Think about it! The only reason why Jessica Alba is off limits for most men to even consider approaching and talking to is because they have been falsely conditioned by the media that she is to be revered and only attainable if they are A list celebrities. Now if you're semi-intelligent you know That's bullshit ....



Don't buy it? Well how do you explain the fact that many super hot model type women or female celebrities have boyfriends that are not celebrities or famous themselves?



It is because they don't treat them in any special manner the way most men do because they believe




1) They are cooler than them, irrespective if they are making more money than them or have more fame and material status than them.




2) They don't talk to the outside but to the inside of a woman. What I mean is that they treat them equally to everyone else because they understand that they are human and not super human or extra terrestrial Godesses and as such have imperfections and weaknesses.



What can you learn from this?



Stop giving your power away to a woman-keep it for yourself.



The first lesson then of approaching not just a woman, but anyone that you want to sell yourself to, to get them interested in you is to believe in yourself and harbor self-confidence. You should even take this one step further and believe that "You are the prize".In fact if you believe in yourself then you will convince others to believe in you or anything associated to you




Belief in yourself and self-confidence is manifested through your non-verbal communication or body language. Specifically your posture, eye movements, vocal projection, vocal tonality, facial expressions, etc.




Those who do believe in themselves and do have a high degree of self-worth and self-confidence...




Speak loud and with power
Stand up right and protrude their chests when walking and talking
Animate their facial expressions and tonality when speaking
Take up space with their arms and legs when they walk
Slow down their speech and insert deliberate, delays or pauses in it.




Just watch how Mickey Rourke speaks and you'll see what I mean by
being cool as a cucumber and what I mean by acting Alpha.




These are called "Alpha" traits because they are indicative of
confidence and leadership-two traits very conducive to survival.



On the other hand, people who don't have any self-confidence exhibit weak non-verbal traits



They speak with low and weak vocal projection
Monotonous facial expressions and vocal tonality
Keep their hands and legs close to their body when they walk
Talk fast, giving the impression of angst and nervousness.




Consequently these are "beta" traits as they are non-conducive to survival.





Important: WOMEN ARE ATTRACTED TO ALPHA TRAITS AND TURNED
OFF BY BETA TRAITS!




Notice how I am placing a huge emphasis on non-verbal traits over pick up lines or verbal tactics. This is because 95% of communication between two people consists of non-verbal communication. In other words, what each other is telegraphing non-verbally through their breathing patterns, eye movements, facial expressions, vocal phrasing speed and manner, vocal tonality, vocal projection, stance and so forth. This means that it doesn't matter what you say but how you say it.



Ever heard that before?. of course you have.



You can say the stupidest thing to a woman..like..."I love taco's baby" but while saying it ..if you exhibit a playful, flirtatious and confident attitude ...you will actually notice that most women will stop and talk to you .



Why? Because once again women don't care about what you say but rather what your body language is sub-communicating. In other words, is it telegraphing that you are alpha or beta





Therefore, the first thing you must do before even attempting to approach a beauty is to make sure you are telegraphing the right alpha non-verbal mannerisms and body language to warm her up to your approach. Otherwise you will be shot down
regardless of how "cool or catchy" your words are.




Furthermore, when you have a sense of self-confidence that underlines you you will be able to go up to anyone at anytime and talk to them-even without knowing what to say beforehand and will deliver precisely the exact words and produce the right actions to make you achieve your desired result.


In other words, you will notice that you seamlessly, carry on a very playful, flirtatious conversation with a woman without drawing a blank even for a minute.




The reason for this is because-..When you are confident..you will be presented with the competence.




The second most common mistake most men make when approaching and initiating an interaction with a woman...that you need to avoid.




They start asking rapport-building questions like "Where are you from" or "How old are you" or "Do you have a boyfriend"





Other men shower her with too much attention by telling her how beautiful she is, how gorgeous she is and how badly they want to pick her up and take her home. Big mistake!





Remember in any given interaction the one who is trying to seek rapport with the other by asking personal questions is of lower value and as we should know by now women do not respond sexually to low value behavior or beta behavior but only to alpha behavior.




Furthermore, I want you to understand the reality of an exceptionally beautiful and high status woman.




She constantly gets hit on
She's constantly told she's gorgeous
She is always used to getting her way
She is propositioned with dates all the time by men
She gets special treatment by most men
Most men that come up to her offer themselves as potential
mates or suitors





So why the hell do most men think that by going up to a woman and saying "Hi beautiful...so you have a boyfriend" or " Hey baby...you are hot....what's your name" will get a woman all hot and bothered for them?




Once again and don't you ever forget it, women are pre-conditioned to respond sexually to men that are of higher value, not lower value. Stating this in layman's terms ...a woman wants to be the one who initiates the questions to you..she wants to be the one who has to pursue you . Not the other way around. In other words, she has to be the one who seeks rapport with you in order for her attraction
circuits to be turned on.



So how do we stand out with our approach amongst the average, beta drones out there?



Exactly- be a challenge and let a woman seek rapport with you.



In terms of openers ...here are some examples you can use to telegraph to a woman that you are alpha and get her to stop everything she is doing to want to talk to you





1 "I gotta tell you..I love your shoes...you know my grandma's got a pair just like 'em". This is a powerful way to stop a woman, in particular one of exceptional beauty and quality dead in her tracks because no one playfully mocks her or teases her like this. Rather most men immediately tell her how beautiful she is, try to impress her or shower her with too much attention and always
complement her. Boring! Boring! Boring!




However when you playfully tease a woman like this in a flirtatious manner, it subtly conveys to her that you are disqualifying her as a potential mate or love interest. Consequently it will put a hole in her self-esteem and make her question her sexiness and attractiveness. As a result it will create a challenge for her to win you over. In fact she will have to, to redeem her self-esteem. Furthermore
when you set up this kind of chasing dynamic with a woman, it is incredibly powerful in pushing her attraction buttons.





2 If a woman is busy and in, what I call "chore or logic mode" particularly when shopping or running errands you can ask her, for her opinion about something. For example you can say..."Hey look I gotta go in a quick sec but I need quick female opinion from you...cool? Great! What color shirt do you think would look sexy on me, pink or blue?"





The reason why an opinion opener like the one above is incredibly powerful to stop a woman dead in her tracks, in particular when she is busy shopping for instance is because it does not convey any sort of interest to her which is important to stop her while she is in "chore" mode.



Once you've stopped her you need to attract her but that is a whole different ball game. To find out how to successfully attract a woman of exceptional beauty and quality, after you have initiated an interaction with her download our world renown Maaximum Seduction -Pick up and Seduction Mastery e-book and kick start your success with the opposite sex.




3 You can telegraph your interest to a woman but then challenge her after that. For instance.. I will many times just walk up to a woman and say "Hey...I was just going to the bank and you caught my eye, so I had to come by and see what you were like and see if you had what it took to keep my interest with your personality"




Do you understand how this is a more powerful variation of the "Hi ....you are so beautiful" and that's it type of approach?. With my version, I am subtly conveying to a woman that her looks are not enough to interest me. She will need to demonstrate her character and personality. Once again, most beautiful women
are not challenged like this and as a result love it!



-McMaax
www.maaximumseduction.com

The importance of social logistics for pick up and seduction mastery!

How to play the game like a logistical pro!



Guys,

Do you ever get stuck in the trap of eliciting superficial interest or attraction from a woman but then stumble and fall when trying to escalate things beyond that point?


If the answer is "yes" then let me tell why that is happening and show you what you need to do to avoid being caught in this hole again, so you can have a fruitful interaction with a woman that actually goes somewhere, each time and every time


Two important pieces of the seduction game you need to fill in.


You need to amplify a woman's attraction for you into "sexual attraction" in order to get her to become open to sleeping with you.


Remember just because a woman is exhibiting indicators of interest or IOIs towards you, it doesn't mean that she is open to the idea of having sex with you. You need to get a woman to invest in the interaction with you or pursue you, for that to occur. Only when a woman feels that she has made an emotional investment into the interaction as much as you have then she will feel "gut level sexual attraction" towards you.


The way to get her to invest in the interaction is to "hook" her to chase you. Recall that the hook phase is the 4th phase of the seduction process that you need to take a woman through, once you have taken her through the 3rd phase of "generating attraction"




One of the ways you can get a woman to chase you is to "falsely disqualify" her. This means to convey to her, through actions or with words that you are not considering her as a potential mate or love interest. In other words, that you are not interested in her.


For instance, when I am talking to a woman and I know that she is becoming attracted to me, I will want to solidify that into "raw, sexual attraction"



So I will falsely disqualify her by saying something like...:


"Don't you have to go back to your friends...they must be worried about you"- This will cause her to think that I am pushing her away because I am getting bored or losing interest in her.


Think about it!




She never has a man push her away or disqualify her like this...but is used to dealing with men who never want to let her go.


Consequently, this will put a damper or hole in her self-esteem which is central to her "Queeny Status". As a result this will cause her to chase me, to win me over so she can turn me into another fan or worshiper, to redeem her self-worth and status as God's gift of heavenly perfection



In other words...it will get her to invest in the interaction with me. As a result, this will amplify her attraction for me into sexual attraction.



Another thing I will say is ---"Oh my God...you have a water hand...honey! shit.......I can't even talk to you".This will generate a similar "elastic band effect" of getting a woman to chase me for conversation so I can tell her what that means. This is because women are genuinely fascinated when you describe them by looking at their hands.or facial structure or lines on their palms.



I will then respond, in a very tongue-n-cheek manner with "I don't know if I should tell you....it may piss you off". She will then usually respond with.."No...tell me please"



Once again do you see how I hooked her into chasing me or investing in the interaction.


You need to set up this "chasing dynamic" in order for a woman to feel sexual attraction for you.




The other reason that your attempts at getting intimate or sexual with a woman lead to nothingness is because you didn't gather information from her as to whether she is sexually open or not.




See exhibiting interest in you, displaying signs of attraction towards you through flirtatious gestures and even kissing you is one thing, but jumping the line to having sex with you is completely off limits for many women. Consequently, to save yourself time from pursuing women that are sexually cold, you need find out early on if a woman is hot or cold sexually. The way to do that is by playing a fun little game, that a famous Blonde with big ambition introduced to the world in the early 90's. You got it----Truth or Dare.

So before you kiss a woman , just like that , without any knowledge of her sexual tendencies or openness- Say to her...."K truth or dare."




If she picks truth...then you can ask....


"security or adventure"
"Going to the movies or enjoying a nice massage"
"erotica or hardcore"


From her answer you can assess if she is somewhat sexual or not...



If she picks dare you can say.


"I dare you to lick your lips in an erotic way"
"I dare you to turn me on by massaging my hand "
"I dare you to eat that orange in an erotic way"




If she complies to these requests with little or no hesitation, then you have yourself a winner baby!. In other words a woman who is open to taking things to the next level if the appropriate conditions are met. At this point, you can go for the kiss with an assurance that she is open to taking things beyond that point when the time is right.




Another logistical purpose for kissing a woman only after she complies with your requests or standards is to convey to her that she is being rewarded for doing so and not undeservingly.



So remember don't just give away a kiss for free- let a woman earn it and you will go a lot further with her.



Until next time...go out there and be a man!

McMaax

How to be the leader of men and attract all the women!

HOW TO STEAL GIRLS FROM MEN THAT ARE BETTER LOOKING AND RICHER THAN YOU!



How many times have you seen the woman of your dreams being courted or seduced by a well-dressed, athletic, good and rich looking guy, inside of a social venue -who knows maybe its John Stamos himself, and you're thinking to yourself. "There is no way in hell I can get that girl to choose me over him" Well I got some news for you...that's a bunch of bullshit! You can have any woman you want but you need the right internal mindset or attitude coupled with the right logistical game plan. In this report I am going to equip you with both.




So let's get the party started...Okay what I want to address first is the importance of beliefs. See you have to understand that beliefs, such as the one stated above are not facts but simply a false interpretation of factual information that has been conditioned within your mind as being true by you. Your sub-conscious mind then takes this belief and filters the world around you through it, making it a part of your reality. In otherwords, whatever belief you hold to be true in your mind will actually come to fruition as is based on the very powerful"law of attraction." This mental law states that whatever you hold to be true in your mind in terms of dominant images and thoughts will manifest itself into your reality.




For instance, if you believe that you won't give a good speech as a public speaker, your sub-conscious mind will actually affect your motor skills, to validate that belief, by causing you to shake and act nervous. It will influence your vocal phrasing manner causing you to speak fast and in a nervous manner, it will make sure that your vocal projection is low and weak, it will cause you to exhibit facial spasms or nervous ticks, etc.





Consequently your speech will not emote people, resonate within their minds and in fact gain any kind of positive feedback from the audience.On the other hand if you believe that you're the man and that everyone will be mesmerized by your words and captivated by your body language, vocal projection, charm and presence, then similarly this belief will influence your sub-conscious mind to outwardly affect your non-verbal mannerisms in a powerful way. It will cause you to speak with volume and power, it will cause your facial expressions to become dynamic, your tonality to become animated.





In other words, you will speak each word with coherence, clarity and power and will in fact mesmerize those who are listening to you.This is the power of belief. It is based on the premise that your psychology influences your physiology and vice versa.Another way a belief or your concept of reality can affect you is by bringing forth actual events, situations and circumstances into realityFor instance. if you believe that you can't get stunning, high quality women then you will actually notice that for no reason, women of beauty and quality don't flirt with you, aknowledge you or even give you the time of day.




In fact you'll see that they give more attention to someone who's less attractive, less ambitious and less financially stable than you. We've all been there right? Of course!How can this be , you might have asked?Ah...very easy my friend. You bought into the physical realm what you thought to be true in the mental one. Remember, whatever you believe to be true or not will be manifested in real life, so why not foster powerfulbeliefs and discard destructive ones. So how do we destroy any and all limiting beliefs that are plaguing our mind ? Easy by discrediting their foundation.




See, what is really important to remember is that many of the beliefs you have, in particular the belief that you have to be super good looking, rich or young to attract and date beautiful women which is preventing you from competiting with John Stamos comes from the bad decision you've made with respect to what something factual means.In fact this belief should be blamed on the biggest scam in the world-Corporate Advertising.We are constantly bombarded with images whether on the web, on billboards or on television of veryattractive women in the presence of very good looking men, or men that are rich or men that are young.





This is typically used to convey the false message that if you buy a particular product from one of thesecorporate entities, you can have these type of women. In otherwords, by purchasing their productsyou can attain true status in life.Consequently, this "false message" has infiltrated your mind and has seaped into it deeply until you now treat this as fact. So how do we descredit the belief that: You have to be good looking, rich or young to attract and date beautiful women so that you don't believe it anymore......? Simple!Ask yourself is this based on fact or fiction?Have I seen an average guy, know a broke guy, or even heard of an old fogie with a super hot, high quality woman. I have and I know you have...so you can't believe that.




Are you with me... ?




Trust me guys...you don't need to have all of that bullshit to attract and date women. We'll leave that for the suckers out there All you need is Genetic status...to convey that you are alpha to achieve social status, you do not need financial or material status. So remember don't just accept a belief at face value, if its disempowering you especially. Understand where you get it from. Analyze its basis or foundation. If it is empowering you, keep it in a safe place but if it is disempowering you and is based on fiction and not fact, piss it out like stale beer okay.Okay so now that I have changed your inner perspective on what's possible ....and have changed your belief withrespect to attracting and seducing women you thought were out of your league previously, the next step is toacquire the competence on how to steal a beautiful woman from a guy who is better looking and richer than you.




How do we do it?Well from my massive live in field experience here is what you need to do.1. First don't be rude or try to disrespect him as that is a sign of immaturity and is a beta quality. 2. Just convey higher value than him




Specifially, here are the top 5 ways to convey higher value than other males in a social venue and steal the attention of the women there from them to you.



Here we go......1. Walk in to the set and put your arm on his shoulder...and say "Hey big guy......pretty big muscles...shit you win"....and then turn to the woman and say...."so how is he doing....on a scale of 1 to 10"..then say to him.."Good man!" This will show the woman that you are not intimidated by other men and will demonstrate higher value because you treated him like a sub-ordinate using phrases like "good man"...or "hey big guy". This will raise your social value in her eyes over his



2. You can teach him something about women, right in front of the woman. For instance, you could after the intro and some fluff talk say.. "Dude did you know that you can make a woman orgasm by touching one spot on her back" Of course he'll say...no...then you can reference the woman and say "Honey come here..Just wanna borrow you for a sec...here turn around... ah right there....How does that feel"which will cause the woman to say.."great...it feels awesome" Then you can say to the guy.."see man...your first free tip".





3. You can treat the guy like your kid brother and say. "What's your name man? Jason...You a body builder big guy?" "Cool shoes man.. I used to wear them a few years back" "Hey man ...that's a cool shirt...get alot of girls with that"






4. You can tell stories to both the guy and the girl that insinuate that you're alphaand have higher value than him. For instance, you can tell them stories that involve youwinning a karate tournament, that demonstrate that you are well travelled, are popular, have social proof from other women, etc.





5.You can tease the girl in front of the guy by saying something like: "Yeah I did her last year...she ain't all that.. don't waste your time" This will cause him to laugh and will set up a challenge for her to now win you over.




Until next time....go out there and be a man!
McMaax
http://www.maaximumseduction.com